Tag Archives: hiv

Lies, Deceit and Manipulation – The toxic environment the gay ill health created

By | 18th July 2020

Think of how many times as gay men we have been burnt by liars, deceivers and manipulators, sometimes called “players”. Gay men who will do or say anything to get what they want, whether that be socially, financially or in the bedroom. Gay men who manipulate so skillfully by psychological means that the victim doubts… Read More »

Raw is the Law. How the gay ill health sector destroyed gay mens sexual health

By | 4th February 2020

How have we got to the point in 2020 where young gay men feel the need to take powerful medication, meant originally to treat HIV positive men, and use it as a way of having unprotected “condomless” sex to stop the anxiety of being infected with HIV and to feel  “liberated”? We have read tweets… Read More »

How many gay men have become HIV+ because of PrEPster propaganda?

By | 1st August 2019

Supposedly “nine gay men are known to have seroconverted since being put on a waiting list for pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) at a single Manchester clinic.” But, on that note: How many gay men have became positive because an MP and PrEPsters said on TV, completely falsely, that places on the PrEP Impact Trial were full… Read More »

Have sleazy PrEPsters led to a decline in acceptance of gay people in the UK?

By | 11th July 2019

Acceptance of gay people has stalled in the UK. What could be the reason? On social media the brain dead are guessing that Donald Trump could be to blame. Or possibly the “far right” – that handy fit-all smear for anyone who says no to gays having everything they want. But perhaps we need to… Read More »

Hepatitis C and why HIV+ gay men should be using condoms

By | 27th January 2019

When was the last time you heard someone in the gay (ill)health sector explicitly advising HIV+ men that they should use condoms? Quite possibly never. Nearly all HIV+ gay men contracted the virus because they didn’t use a condom. And what is rarely mentioned is that, after their diagnosis, a large percentage of them seem… Read More »

So you’re a fabulous slut! So now what?

By | 13th January 2019

Have the gay ill health unprofessionals achieved what they desire for 2019? A post condom world, where HIV is destigmatised and condomless sex is “defetishised” and seen as a sign of liberation for the gay community? You are no longer a “bad gay”. Barebacking is the new intimacy, a sign of pleasure for the uninhibited… Read More »

Video illustrates why San Francisco could once again be the starting point for a pandemic amongst gay men

By | 4th December 2018

17,000 men who have sex with men (MSM) are taking PrEP in San Francisco, that’s 37%, according to this video. And you can bet that hardly any of them are using condoms. In fact condoms aren’t mentioned once in the video (agenda revealed). But no surprise there, as its from the website Prepster. Using PrEP… Read More »

PrEP promoters & their hatred of “inhibitions” are a danger to us all

By | 5th November 2018

Some of the people who work in gay “health” and who are the loudest advocates for PrEP seem a little bit weird. Perhaps you’ve sensed that too? They’re keen that no one should be “judged” or “stigmatised” and one wonders whether that stems from reactions they’ve had over the years personally. Not just because some… Read More »

The fear and stigma propaganda doesn’t make any sense

By | 28th October 2018

The PrEPsters specialise in telling half the story. But, increasingly, gay men see right through it. Let’s consider this Twitter exchange. Here at GMAP we believe that a small focused roll-out of PrEP is sufficient. It should be aimed at gay men who have a chaotic life. Men who are out of control and really… Read More »

Re-educating the gay ill health sector on safe sex and condom use will be uncomfortable but it needs to happen

By | 27th October 2018

It’s not unfair to say that the gay ill health sector has over the past 15 years failed in their remit to keep gay men safe from HIV and STIs with a strong message of consistent condom use. Championing the reliable condom as the gold standard in HIV prevention along with healthy lifestyles all but… Read More »