Tag Archives: stigma

“Positive Speakers” make no sense

By | 5th December 2021

Have you ever been to a “Positive Speakers” event? Where someone who is HIV+ tells you their story and “journey” living with HIV? Or have you read the many articles, tweets, blogs, youtube videos they do? Do you take them at face value or take a critical look at them analysing what they say? If… Read More »

“Gay Shame” What’s that all about?

By | 11th July 2021

“Gay shame” is the new ideologically driven narrative the gay ill health sector is pushing onto the gay community. It stems from a 2005 book “The Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs. In it Downs explores “gay shame” by interviewing a number (not many) of gay men. The idea is that we are all suffering from… Read More »

It’s A Sin Review: A distorted narrative of AIDS in the 80s

By | 9th February 2021

“It’s A Sin” is the story of an arrogant, ignorant, selfish, irresponsible gay man (Ritchie). A failed actor in denial of the AIDS epidemic. Someone who wouldn’t listen to any advice or guidance on his sex life, he would not moderate his behaviour. He didn’t give a fuck about himself or anyone else. As the… Read More »

Confusion and Contradiction is part of the HIV non prevention strategy

By | 24th January 2021

Do you ever read articles, tweets, facebook posts from the gay ill health sector and feeling utterly confused in what they are saying, how they are saying it and what it all means? Politically correct language which offers no advice, guidance and is contradictory when you think about it? Well confusion and contradiction is part… Read More »

“Self stigma” Why the gay ill health sector won’t promote condoms

By | 16th October 2020

You will have seen over the past few years several campaigns from the gay ill health sector. Focusing on testing, U=U and of course PrEP. As always “HIV stigma” is thrown into the mix. However don’t you find it odd in the fight to “prevent” and “tackle” HIV that condoms are never mentioned or if… Read More »

Is the gay ill health sector enacting bareback conversion therapy on the gay community?

By | 23rd July 2020

If you believe the gay ill health sector is a force for good in the gay community, this article may be triggering for you. It may however be a sign you have been brainwashed and traumatised by an extreme politically correct woke bareback agenda masquerading as “ending HIV”. So please have an open mind. ” Brainwashing (also… Read More »

Lies, Deceit and Manipulation – The toxic environment the gay ill health created

By | 18th July 2020

Think of how many times as gay men we have been burnt by liars, deceivers and manipulators, sometimes called “players”. Gay men who will do or say anything to get what they want, whether that be socially, financially or in the bedroom. Gay men who manipulate so skillfully by psychological means that the victim doubts… Read More »

PrEP users and the bareback community are struggling in these times – Dr Linzi Lovelace gives advice

By | 24th April 2020

Marginalised minorities who are stigmatised by society, particularly PrEP users and the bareback community are in my thoughts during the COVID-19 crisis. They are the ones at high risk of the disease due to their potential risky behaviour, but we must be clear not to judge, stigmatise or condemn these members of our gay community… Read More »

COVID-19 evaporates the gay ill health woke ideology

By | 22nd March 2020

Advice can change quite rapidly in the wacky world of the gay ill health sector. One minute you are being told to be a fabulous barebacking slut on PrEP the next you are being told not to kiss and have a phone wank. The sector is now in utter crisis after years of destroying the… Read More »

Raw is the Law. How the gay ill health sector destroyed gay mens sexual health

By | 4th February 2020

How have we got to the point in 2020 where young gay men feel the need to take powerful medication, meant originally to treat HIV positive men, and use it as a way of having unprotected “condomless” sex to stop the anxiety of being infected with HIV and to feel  “liberated”? We have read tweets… Read More »