The recent ITV documentary about Paul O’Grady AKA the drag queen Lily Savage again gave the impression that, in the 1980s, gay men spent their whole time in hospitals and attending the funerals of others who had died from AIDS. No doubt that was Paul’s genuine personal experience as he worked as a stand-up comedian… Read More »
HIV testing week runs every year in February to highlight the importance of HIV testing, so people know their status. They can get a simple HIV test which they can do at home or go to a sexual Health clinic. HIV advocates, most of whom are HIV positive, and some of whom are chemsex drug… Read More »
Lets face it, the gay ill health sector, scene bars, publications and media outlets are just shallow exploitative organisations. They’re eager to exploit your insecurities and sell you a fake gay fantasy lifestyle that is never achievable. In fact it risks destroying you. For some, HIV is the second “coming out”. But, for the rest… Read More »
“Gay shame” is the new ideologically driven narrative the gay ill health sector is pushing onto the gay community. It stems from a 2005 book “The Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs. In it Downs explores “gay shame” by interviewing a number (not many) of gay men. The idea is that we are all suffering from… Read More »
Do you ever read articles, tweets, facebook posts from the gay ill health sector and feeling utterly confused in what they are saying, how they are saying it and what it all means? Politically correct language which offers no advice, guidance and is contradictory when you think about it? Well confusion and contradiction is part… Read More »
If you believe the gay ill health sector is a force for good in the gay community, this article may be triggering for you. It may however be a sign you have been brainwashed and traumatised by an extreme politically correct woke bareback agenda masquerading as “ending HIV”. So please have an open mind. ” Brainwashing (also… Read More »
The gay ill health unprofessionals are obsessed with the idea of “ending HIV”. Without a cure or vaccine it’s an unobtainable goal which keeps them in their gay ill health job. Their (flawed) strategy is based somewhat on “herd immunity” and they see COVID-19 lockdown as an unprecedented opportunity to end HIV. If everyone tested… Read More »
Marginalised minorities who are stigmatised by society, particularly PrEP users and the bareback community are in my thoughts during the COVID-19 crisis. They are the ones at high risk of the disease due to their potential risky behaviour, but we must be clear not to judge, stigmatise or condemn these members of our gay community… Read More »
Advice can change quite rapidly in the wacky world of the gay ill health sector. One minute you are being told to be a fabulous barebacking slut on PrEP the next you are being told not to kiss and have a phone wank. The sector is now in utter crisis after years of destroying the… Read More »
Some gay men never learn. Others are naive and are influenced by the relentless rhetoric they are fed by LGBT organisations they believe are here to represent their best interests and tell the truth. Yet the gay men who survive and thrive are the ones who take a critical eye, look at the wider picture,… Read More »