2022 was a disastrous year for the gay ill health sector as they push their bareback agenda on the gay community. The highlight (or low point) was the advent of Monkeypox. The World Health Organisation (WHO) declared Monkeypox a public health emergency. Originally contained in Africa it swept across the Western world predominantly affecting gay… Read More »
HIV testing week runs every year in February to highlight the importance of HIV testing, so people know their status. They can get a simple HIV test which they can do at home or go to a sexual Health clinic. HIV advocates, most of whom are HIV positive, and some of whom are chemsex drug… Read More »
Lets face it, the gay ill health sector, scene bars, publications and media outlets are just shallow exploitative organisations. They’re eager to exploit your insecurities and sell you a fake gay fantasy lifestyle that is never achievable. In fact it risks destroying you. For some, HIV is the second “coming out”. But, for the rest… Read More »
The gay ill health non-experts sold PrEP to HIV negative men as “sex without fear”. It’s a laughable but dangerous message that was sent out to gay men and highly disingenuous. It was part of their bareback agenda to erase condoms from all sexual health messaging. Sexual health does not end with taking a PrEP… Read More »
Have you ever been to a “Positive Speakers” event? Where someone who is HIV+ tells you their story and “journey” living with HIV? Or have you read the many articles, tweets, blogs, youtube videos and tiktoks they do? Do you take them at face value or take a critical look at them analysing what they… Read More »
“Gay shame” is the new ideologically driven narrative the gay ill health sector is pushing onto the gay community. It stems from a 2005 book “The Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs. In it Downs explores “gay shame” by interviewing a number (not many) of gay men. The idea is that we are all suffering from… Read More »
“It’s A Sin” is the story of an arrogant, ignorant, selfish, irresponsible gay man (Ritchie). A failed actor in denial of the AIDS epidemic. Someone who wouldn’t listen to any advice or guidance on his sex life, he would not moderate his behaviour. He didn’t give a fuck about himself or anyone else. As the… Read More »
Do you ever read articles, tweets, facebook posts from the gay ill health sector and feeling utterly confused in what they are saying, how they are saying it and what it all means? Politically correct language which offers no advice, guidance and is contradictory when you think about it? Well confusion and contradiction is part… Read More »
You will have seen over the past few years several campaigns from the gay ill health sector. Focusing on testing, U=U and of course PrEP. As always “HIV stigma” is thrown into the mix. However don’t you find it odd in the fight to “prevent” and “tackle” HIV that condoms are never mentioned or if… Read More »
Think of how many times as gay men we have been burnt by liars, deceivers and manipulators, sometimes called “players”. Gay men who will do or say anything to get what they want, whether that be socially, financially or in the bedroom. Gay men who manipulate so skillfully by psychological means that the victim doubts… Read More »